Tag: #stress

  • Hypnotherapy: The Power Behind the World Champion

    Hypnotherapy: The Power Behind the World Champion

    The fact that Kyren Wilson won the World Snooker Championship yesterday will be of little interest to many of you … indeed, you may be wondering why I mention it in a blog all about hypnotherapy, stress and anxiety! Well … read on and you’ll find out.

    You see, most snooker players suffer from a huge amount of stress when playing a tournament – and this is doubly-so, or maybe more, for the world championship. The championship goes on over a 2 week period, during which players have to play a calm and focused game. One mistake can give their opponent a significant advantage – so the pressure is immense.

    Players at the World Championship often tell of how little sleep they get during the tournament. When all that pressure is on, when the stress is so high, sleep eludes them. And so they start the next day, not only under intense stress, but also sleep-deprived.

    So how did Kyren Wilson, now the World Champion, cope … quite simple … he employed a hypnotherapist. He has been quite open and candid about it. In one interview he said that, with the help of his hypnotherapist, he sleeps solidly each night throughout the tournament. Of course, the sleep not only rests his body, but also allows his brain to process all the stress he is under.

    As Wilson said, “It’s just about emptying your stress bucket, if that makes sense. We all have things going on that can affect our day-to-day working lives. It’s allowed me to go out there and be a bit freer.”

    And that is what hypnotherapy can do for you – it can make your freer. Of course, we can’t all be world champions at what we do, but we can get all that stress under control and become free to lead our lives as we want. Once we are back in control of our lives, those intervals of anxiety and depression fade away as well. The vicious circle of anxiety feeding anxiety is broken and we can get on with our lives in peace.

    And Finally …

    If you want help getting your life back together (or if you want help winning the world snooker championship for that matter) hypnotherapy could well be the answer. I work with clients in my clinic here in Fleet, Hampshire, and also with clients online. Contact me and I will be happy to have a chat for a few minutes to answer any questions.

    References

    Kyren Wilson reveals hypnotherapy force behind World Championship final run

    https://metro.co.uk/2024/05/04/kyren-wilson-reveals-hypnotherapy-force-behind-world-championship-final-run-20775794/amp


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  • Anxiety Control: Letting Nature Lend a Hand

    Anxiety Control: Letting Nature Lend a Hand

    The natural world has an ability to sooth the anxious mind. Simply being in “nature” helps sooth away the stresses of the day, leaving us less anxious and more in control of our lives. Going for a walk in the natural world has an even greater effect.

    The Science Behind Anxiety and Nature

    Many people experience the soothing effect of walking through the countryside, in a forest or along the beach. And guess what … there is some real science behind it. There have been numerous experiments that now support this.

    Trials have shown that, after doing a task that increases stress, recovery occurs more quickly in a room with views of trees through the windows, as compared with a windowless room. Another test showed that stress recovery was better if a person goes for a walk in a natural environment, as compared to going for the same length of walk in an urban environment.

    There is a growing amount of scientific evidence that supports the idea that being in a natural environment is good for both your physical health and mental well-being. A few references to scientific papers are provided at the end of this article.

    Why Does Being in Nature Helps Mental Health and, In Particular, Anxiety?

    Think about the history of humankind. For thousands of years, men and women have lived together on this Earth. Most of that time, we have lived close to nature. Our brains are more attuned to living in a natural environment than they are to living in a city. It is only comparatively recently that so many people live in an urban environment.

    That is not to say that cities are in any way a bad thing. On the contrary, they are a fundamental part of civilisation. However, we need to be aware that getting out into nature can be one factor that helps stem our stresses and anxiety.

    Putting it into Practice

    I am lucky enough to live within a short walk of woodland with plenty of scope for getting out for a walk on a regular basis. Not everyone is so lucky. You need to ask yourself, what is the closest to a natural environment that I can get to? It might be a beach or a local park – even in a city like London, there are many small green spaces set aside for people to wander through.

    One of the studies I have looked at suggests that you should aim to spend 120 minutes a week in nature. This may not be practical for everyone – so just do what you can.

    And Finally …

    I often write about things that you can do yourself to help your anxiety. However, if you need help, then I am very happy to talk to you about the possibilities that hypnotherapy can give you. Contact me when you are ready to take things forward. I work in my clinic here in Fleet, Hampshire, and I also work online.

    References

    Spending at least 120  minutes a week in nature is associated with good health and wellbeing
    https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-019-44097-3

    Tracking restoration in natural and urban field settings
    https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0272494402001093

    Restorative Effects of Natural Environment Experiences
    https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0013916591231001


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  • What is a normal level of stress and anxiety?

    What is a normal level of stress and anxiety?

    I have been seeing a client for a number of weeks seeing small changes in her levels of anxiety, but nothing major … until last week. It happens so often. I see small improvements and then all of a sudden there is a step change.

    And the interesting thing was that she said to me, “I feel so calm now. I have realised that I have been through the whole of my life being stressed and anxious all the time. I didn’t realise that this was not normal.”

    Is it normal to be stressed and anxious all the time? Of course not, but it is so easy to get used to it and accept it as normal. Our brains can get used to the constant levels of adrenaline and cortisol in our bodies.

    Of course, a certain level of stress is important, because it helps us get through busy times. It helps us achieve more in a short period of time. And anxiety is important when we are in danger. It gets us to focus on the danger so that we can avoid it.

    Our bodies were never designed to be under constant stress and anxiety, as this raises blood pressure and heart rate, as well as making many of our organs work less effectively.

    You may like to consider – what is a normal level of stress and anxiety for you? Has it always been like this? Are you content with the level it is at now or would you like to change it? Some people are quite happy with higher levels of stress and anxiety – they may even enjoy it. However, if you are among those that do not, you may want to consider what you might do to change.

    If you have problems getting your anxiety under control on your own, you might want to consider therapy. I help people with anxiety get their lives back under control and return to a state of normality. I use the power of hypnotherapy from my clinic here in Fleet, Hampshire. I also work online. Contact me if you would like a chat.


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  • Are You Hiding Your Anxiety, While Only Just Coping?

    Are You Hiding Your Anxiety, While Only Just Coping?

    Anxiety happens … It happens to everyone in their lives at sometime or another. It happens to some people a lot more than others. Anxiety effects people in different ways. For some, anxiety is a mild inconvenience, and for others, it dominates their lives.

    Everyone has a different approach to sharing their anxiety. Some hide it away from their friends and family, too embarrassed to say anything and not wanting to burden others with their problems. Others tell anyone who will listen all about the stress and worry they are undergoing.

    Everyone finds different ways of coping with anxiety. Some just put up with it, hoping that it will eventually go away. Others actively challenge anxiety and decide to do something about it. Some people set out to cope with anxiety on their own, and some involved friends, family, self-help groups and therapists.

    And the question I have is: Why does anyone simply put up with anxiety? No-one who sprains their ankle goes about pretending it doesn’t need rest, and that they can still walk without limping. So why do people pretend that anxiety doesn’t exist and that they don’t need to do anything about it?

    To have anxiety means that the fight-or-flight centre of your brain is being over-sensitive. It needs time to recover, and if it’s bad, it may need treatment. It’s just like if you sprain your ankle – it needs time to recover, and if it’s bad, it may need treatment.

    So please … if you are suffering from anxiety, if you are only just coping with it all, and especially if you are hiding it all from the rest of the world … do something about it. Self-help is always a good start. Go and see your doctor. Go and see a therapist. Just don’t suffer in silence.

    And Finally …

    If you need help with your anxiety, in whatever form it might take, you might consider coming to see me. I use hypnotherapy to help my clients get back in control and regain normality in their lives. I work from my clinic here in Fleet, Hampshire and also see people online. Check out my website, and then Contact Me.

    Useful Links

    How to Stay Mentally Fit – the Mental Health Hygiene Triangle
    https://timmaudehypnotherapy.co.uk/2024/03/12/how-to-stay-mentally-fit-the-mental-health-hygiene-triangle/


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  • How to Stay Mentally Fit – the Mental Health Hygiene Triangle

    How to Stay Mentally Fit – the Mental Health Hygiene Triangle

    I spend a lot of time talking about anxiety and what happens when things go wrong, why it happens and what to do about it. Today, I want to take a different approach.

    We brush our teeth each day even when our teeth are healthy. It’s just a dental hygiene habit. But what is the equivalent mental hygiene habit? This article looks at the mental health hygiene triangle.

    Mental Health Hygiene

    The mental health hygiene triangle covers body, mind and attitude. There are things we can do in each of these areas that will support our mental health. I have divided each of the three areas (body, mind and attitude) into three categories, making nine in all.

    Body

    1. Sleep Well – When we are asleep, particularly during the dreaming phase, our brains sort out all the stresses of the day. If we don’t get enough sleep, ours brains do not have time to sort it all out and so we wake up with stress that still needs to be sorted out.
    2. Eat Well – There is growing scientific evidence that eating poorly effects our mental health. In particular, eating a wide variety of plants (vegetables, fruit, nuts, grains and so on) has a positive impact on the gut biome, which in turn gives us a better mental outlook.
    3. Exercise Well – We don’t have to go down to the gym for hours each day (unless you really want to). Even going for a short walk round the block has a positive impact on our mental health.

    I know that not everyone can do all these things, but the more you can make changes to keep the body in shape, the better mental health you will have.

    Mind

    1. Mindfulness – Mindfulness is about focusing one the here and now. Focus your attention on everything you are experiencing right now – for example, the feelings of your arm moving as you raise a cup of coffee to your lips, the change in temperature of your face as the hot air from the coffee hits your face, the light reflected in the surface of the coffee, the taste of the coffee as it hits your tongue and so on. Just practicing mindfulness for a few minutes each day trains your brain to be able to focus on the here and now.
    2. Focus – Train your brain to be able to focus on one thing at a time – get absorbed into watching a film or reading a book, or playing a sport or whatever you like to do. If you notice the odd stray thought enter your mind, just notice it and bring your attention gently back to whatever you are doing.
    3. Reflection – Spend a few minutes each day reflecting on how things are going for you. In particular, notice the things you have experienced that have been good for you, things you have enjoyed – because those are the things you should do more of.

    You need to set aside time each day to practice these things. For me, it’s first thing in the morning over a cup of tea. For you it may be something different.

    Attitude

    1. Positive Thinking – We have a natural tendency to focus our thinking on the stuff that is going wrong in our lives – and this just creates a little bit more stress. So change the balance of your thinking – notice the good things in life when they occur – things that give you those little nuggets of joy in your life – things you are grateful for.
    2. Positive Action – Ask yourself, “What small thing could I do to make my life a bit better?” Then get out and do it – no matter how small. Small positive actions may seem to be trivial in comparison with whatever else is going on in your life, but those actions have a direct impact on your mental health.
    3. Positive Interaction – Spending time interacting with other people in a positive manner has a big positive impact on mental health. It could be chatting with the person at the checkout in the supermarket, a good chat with your friends over a cup of tea, or simply being with others going for a walk.

    Keeping your body healthy; training your mind so that it can be mindful, focused and reflective when you need it to be; and adopting a more positive attitude to life are three major tools you can start using today to improve and then maintain a good state of mental health.

    And Finally …

    If this is not enough for you to get your anxiety under control, and get you into a good mentally healthy state, you may need help. I help people with anxiety get their lives back in control using hypnotherapy from my clinic in Fleet, Hampshire. I can also serve people online. Give me a call or contact me if you want a chat.

  • Unpredictable Overwhelming Feeling: Exploring The Scourge Of Panic Attacks

    Unpredictable Overwhelming Feeling: Exploring The Scourge Of Panic Attacks

    What is a Panic Attack?

    Panic attacks are sudden surges of intense fear or anxiety that come on quickly and reach their peak within minutes. They can be incredibly frightening and debilitating, often leaving people feeling like they’re losing control or even dying.

    During a panic attack, the the brain’s fight-or-flight centre becomes hyperactive, mistaking harmless sensations as threats and triggering a massive fight-or-flight response. (Update added post publication of this article – Recent scientific research suggests that there may be another circuit in the brain, outside of the fight-or-flight centre (the Amygdala) that may be involved. The jury is still out on this one. See references.)

    What are the Symptoms of a Panic Attack?

    Symptoms of a panic attack vary from person to person, but most panic attacks are characterised by several of the following physical and mental symptoms

    Mental Symptoms
    • Overwhelming anxiety – You may feel so overwhelmed that you cannot think straight.
    • Sensation of impending doom – You may have a feeling that something terrible is going to happen, even if you can’t identify what it is.
    • Detachment from reality – You may feel that you are somehow detached from what is going on around you. You may even feel as if you are outside your own body.
    • Loss of control: You may feel like you have lost control of your mind and/or body
    Physical Symptoms
    • Racing heart or heart palpitations
    • Shortness of breath
    • Sweating
    • Chest pain
    • Lightheadedness
    • Nausea
    • Trembling muscles
    • Tingling sensation
    • Feelings of heat or cold

    It’s important to note that many people will only experience some of these symptoms, and the severity of symptoms can vary from person to person and from attack to attack.

    Is it a Heart Attack or Panic Attack?

    The symptoms of a heart attack (more properly known as a myocardial infarction) can be very similar to the symptoms of a panic attack. If you are in any doubt whatsoever – call for the emergency services – it’s better to be safe than sorry.

    Don’t worry … there are plenty of people who go to the hospital emergency department with what they think might be a heart attack, only to find that it was a panic attack. The staff there are used to it.

    If you have panic attacks quite often, you will start to understand the symptoms that you get and learn to recognise them for yourself.

    What Triggers a Panic Attack?

    Panic attacks can come out of the blue. It may not be possible to identify what triggers them. Some people may be able to spot a pattern in their panic attacks and notice what triggers them. For many, however, they just happen at apparently random times.

    Panic attacks are more likely to occur in times of extreme mental or physical stress. The pressure of having a large amount of critical things to do may trigger a panic attack. A traumatic event, or going back to the place where a traumatic event took place could be the trigger. Extreme physical effort, sudden large changes in temperature, or taking too many stimulants like caffeine or cocaine could be the cause.

    What Can I Do When I Have a Panic Attacks

    There are a number of things that you can do when you realise you are having a panic attack. If you have panic attacks quite often, you should practice these regularly when you are not having a panic attack. When you have a panic attack, your conscious thinking often gets overwhelmed and so if you have practiced these beforehand, it will be much easier to do so when the panic attack happens.

    1. Slow your breathing down – for example, breath in for the count of 4 and then out for the count of 6. When practising, keep this up for a couple of minutes so that you get used to the amount of air you need to breath in without hyperventilating.
    2. Muscle relaxation – consciously go through each major muscle group in your body one-by-one and relax it. For example, start with your shoulders, then neck, arms, hands, chest, stomach, upper and lower legs.
    3. Ground yourself – consciously look around you and notice things that you can see around you, naming them one by one. Then listen to the things you can hear and name them. Then notice the things you can feel (the floor on the soles of your feet, the temperature of the air around you etc.).

    How Do I Avoid Getting Panic Attacks in the First Place?

    Panic attacks are a form of anxiety, which is often associated with a lot of unresolved stress. Once you deal with the underlying causes of anxiety and stress, the panic attacks will resolve themselves. You don’t need to deal with the panic attacks as a specific problem as they will gradually diminish and disappear completely once the underlying anxiety and stress is under control.

    If you know what triggers the panic attack, you can, of course, attempt to avoid the triggers – but this does not tackle the underlying stress and anxiety.

    There are three basic approaches for dealing with anxiety and stress:

    1. Mental health hygiene – changing your lifestyle to include more mental health hygiene activities such as getting enough sleep, doing at least a little exercise, eating healthily, avoiding taking on too much, having positive interactions with other people and the like.
    2. Medication – medication for panic attacks is usually prescribed in the form of either antidepressants (which, as well as helping with depression, help with anxiety), beta blockers (which block the release of stress hormones adrenaline and noradrenaline), or sedatives (which slow down the activity of the brain).
    3. Therapy – there are various forms of therapy – hypnotherapy and cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) are two of the most common and can be highly effective at treating anxiety.

    How Do I Get Help From You?

    Call me or send me a message if you want hypnotherapy to help with panic attacks. I help all sorts of people with anxiety and stress-related issues, using hypnotherapy to help them regain control of their lives and get back onto the right path. My clinic is in Fleet, Hampshire and I also work online.

    References

    https://economictimes.indiatimes.com/news/international/us/end-of-panic-attacks-a-new-brain-discovery-may-find-a-solution-know-in-detail/articleshow/106580221.cms


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